Your Friends Confront You

Your real friends will tell you the truth, and it’s not always what you want to hear, but the proverbs teach, “Faithful are the wounds of a friend; profuse are the kisses of an enemy” (Prov 27:6), so sometimes God will send friends into your life who are trying to get your attention over something you’re doing. If a friend sees a friend living in sin and says nothing, then that person is not really their friend.

The Word Convicts You

Students of the Bible know that “the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart” (Heb 4:12), and that the Word of God exposes us all as guilty before God. Nothing is hidden from Him (Heb 4:13), so if you read some Bible verses that really convict you deeply, God may be trying to tell you something, and using His own written Word to do it. Whatever it was that convicted you may be what God’s trying to get your attention for.

Financial Storm

Every one has times of their lives when they encounter storms. Sometimes we don’t even see them coming and we’re blindsided, but other times we see it coming, but we’re still helpless to do anything about it. Is that you? Is God using a financial difficulty to get your attention? Have you not been giving to others…or to even, anyone? Maybe it’s something else. Getting near the bottom dollar is scary. That will get your attention.

A Lack of Peace

I heard one man who was thinking about going on a missionary trip to South America. He was prepared, well equipped, and had raised all the funds necessary (as missionaries sometimes do), but as he got closer to departure, he didn’t have peace about it. He couldn’t explain it, but he knew he wasn’t supposed to go on this trip. He ends up not going, and his wife falls terribly ill. If he had left, he would have left behind his spouse who was not gravely ill. When you don’t have peace about something, it may be God telling you, “No,” “Wait”or “I’ve got something better.”

A Damascus Road

Sometimes it takes a “Damascus Road” experience to knock us on the ground and put temporary limits on us, like Jesus did Saul. Saul was blinded for three days until he could finally see, and you know that must have gotten Saul’s attention. Saul was later renamed Paul, because Saul means “destroyer,” which he was for a time with the church, but now, having had to be humbled by the blinding light of Jesus’ Shekinah glory, he would have to depend on others for a time. God may not send a “Damascus Road” encounter, but that encounter can look like any number of different things (DUI, Jail, Prison, Cancer, etc.).


Hopefully God won’t have to take drastic measures to get my attention. If I keep praying and reading the Bible every day, it may help, but don’t forget about your friends who love you, and in their love, they seem concerned about something you’re doing. Friends are born for such adversity (Prov 17:17).